And since he knows that when I am allowed to cum, my attitude about sex changes abruptly, and I have no desire to have sex, he does not allow me to cum all that often. He has all the power to make all decisions when it comes to sex - when, how, how often, and if I cum or not. Our roles are quite different when it comes to sex. We have actually had sex of some sort 4 times in one day. I am ready to have sex anytime he wants it. But with me in chastity, I am in a constant state of horniness and I love to have him penetrate me either anally or orally. If left up to my own devices, I would jerk off every day, which then leaves me no desire to have sex with my husband. Bottom line it made our sex soooo much better. Well actually I am not allowed to cum unless my Dom allows it.Ībout three years ago we found out that me being in chastity brought a whole new dimension to our relationship. Except I am not allowed to cum during sex. We do everything like every other couple we know. We argue, we fight, he holds me accountable, and I hold him accountable. We live a "normal" life in every aspect except. That last bit of advice goes for hook ups with women too although any woman who does hook up in this way is regarded as, and probably is, a prostitute.A bit of background information leading up to me being locked in the Looker 01 Titanium: Never get into a relationship! You'll end up paying for every emergency (real or imagined) suffered by him and his family for ever more. It's not regarded as gay if one's a top, They're just doing "what men do". The incidence of man on man action is certainly higher than in the West. Loads of Moroccan guys and expats use it. If you use Grindr, meet up in a busy, public place. Don't take compromising photos! And that could mean sitting fully clothed on his bed with him. That means you don't even go to the bathroom without him. Keep an eye on your personal effects (phone, wallet, etc) AT ALL TIMES. If there are any threats, face them down - the Moroccan would be badly mauled by the criminal justice system. Go to the other guy's place - it's very unlikely a riad or hotel would let a Moroccan up to your room anyway. Hook up away from tourist places or bars/cafes. The Moroccan cops have got far better things to do than create fake Grindr profiles, unlike the cops in Egypt who entrap gay guys daily. I'm glad you didn't hook up as he sounded like a rent boy. Genuine types don't need to get to know tourists so don't go out of their way to do so. The former want nothing more than to empty the Foreigner's wallet which is why they are so pushy. They are always prone to meeting "bad" Moroccans whether for fun or simply socially or on the streets (hustlers, fake guides) rather than normal regular people. To the OP, if you ever come back, try some of the many FB groups or go to (oddly enough) working class bars or cabarets where there's often an openly gay coterie sitting at their table.
The problem for visitors as opposed to residents, is finding it.
There actually is a non-commercial gay scene in every town in Morocco. But no one wants to handle this sort of horror, of course. The local guy would go to prison and the foreigner most likely be let off or at the worst expelled if there were a scandal. Some of them are complete scumbags who will demand large sums (sometimes menacingly), many times the average daily wage. Any guys a casual tourist meets are overwhelmingly likely to be actual rent boys or chancers looking to make money. Firstly, I need to point out that gay sex in Morocco is illegal, albeit rarely prosecuted.